Anonymous said: People are allowed to miss their significant other regardless of the situation. It's not a pissing contest because you've been through worse.
Which is exactly what I said. Did you even read what I wrote? I specifically said that whether someone is gone for a day or a year, you’re going to miss that person SO much. & that’s completely fine. But just like people are allowed to miss someone, it also means people are allowed to be irritated, which is what I was.
It wasn’t the fact that she is talking about missing him, I have sat and listened to a number of my friends countless times about how they miss their significant other without being annoyed. It’s the fact that I was being so supportive and nice about it when I will be in the same exact position (missing my husband/she misses her boyfriend) at the same time as her, and she said absolutely nothing positive to me about my situation. Basically SHE was making it the pissing contest. That’s what’s irritating. She was being really rude to me about my husband being gone when I was so nice to her about her boyfriend being gone. That’s the part that pissed me off.
But regardless of the situation, this is my blog and I’m allowed to write how I’m feeling and rant about what I want. It was a “read more” entry and you’re the one that decided that you wanted to read my thoughts and feelings.